ok, i'm 32.5 weeks pregnant with Antony. the second boy! yay! he is set to come march 17th i wouldn't mind a little earlier, but Xavian came late so i don't expect too much different. Xavian is 4 years old! ah! it's been a hard one. haha! just because mommy thinks he's growing up TOO fast! apparently i can't say that out loud because he feels the same way and i have to discourage this. he stops eating and says, but i don't want to grow up! he knows that eating makes him grow, therefore stopping must make him stop. i have to be very forthcoming and tell him if he doesn't eat he'll die! it's aweful, hence i cannot say outloud that I don't want him to grow!!! he seems to be coming to terms with growing as he hasn't done this for over a week now. :) my marriage is awesome. i love my husband more than i can dare try to say!!! i am so grateful! we had our 2 yr anniversary in december09. We just got back from a week and a half of vacation in mt/wy. we saw some of his family whom i love very much! and we had the pool to ourselves all week at the time share! what more can you ask, you're family and a pool, heaven! :) I can't wait til Antony gets here! Xavian is WAY excited to be a big brother! he is even excited to share his room. when i put Antony's dresser together in the other room X got all sorts of nervous asking why Antony's dresser was in THIS room! i told him just his clothes would be in it Antony would still be in X's room. he sighed a breath of relief, and i ended up putting the dresser in his room anyway after figuring out it wouldn't be crammed in there. hope you feel caught up! :) i'll post a few new pics. i should have someone teach me to work with this site better!